Jul 17, 2019
So, you've been diagnosed with cancer. What happens next? Can you turn this shocking news into something that's a part of your life but not running your life? Is it even possible for patients to still live their lives with a cancer diagnosis? In this episode, Dr. JYP consults with MCI oncologist and supportive care physician Dr. Thomas Butler about delivering and managing the emotional side of a cancer diagnosis, and how patients can still live their lives with that life-changing reality. Even an "incurable" diagnosis. Dr. Butler candidly shares his thoughts on talking with doctors, building trust, the importance of positivity and spirituality, and the interdisciplinary care processes that affect the cancer patient, family and community.
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The Doctors Said:
Patients can still live their lives with a cancer diagnosis. - Dr. Pierce (JYP)
If you tell me that you can't cure the cancer, that doesn't mean that it's going to end your life. It means you've just got a different perspective on your life. - Dr. Thomas Butler
I think that we can focus on looking at the positive things we can do to try to make their lives better. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Communicating with honesty is essential, and patients need to be able to trust us doctors that we're going to treat them like we would a family member. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Sometimes the initial diagnosis is so shocking that you may have to revisit the conversation because you don't really know exactly what the patient heard or can recall. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Letting people express their distress is important, and I think for me the best technique is listening. I'm wanting to hear from the patient experience as opposed to what I'm dictating that their experience should be. It's better to understand than to be understood. - Dr. Thomas Butler
I like to listen to patients tell about how their treatment is because it helps me know what to tell other patients. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Make sure the patient understands that they are the center of attention. It's not what I want; it's what they want. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Give the patient the confidence that they can ask what to expect. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Palliative care has kind of a negative connotation because a lot of folks think of it as end-of-life care. But, the word palliate means to make you feel better. I tell folks that that's the goal of palliative care is to make you feel better. - Dr. Thomas Butler
When folks do have family support, they tend to do better as far as the management of their disease. - Dr. Thomas Butler
I encourage patients to realize that they're not alone, and at MCI we have people who can help take care of them. - Dr. Thomas Butler
The cancer diagnosis sometimes makes patients feel isolated, and I think knowing that others are walking through it with them can be helpful. - Dr. Thomas Butler
Having a spiritual focus on the meaning of this disease and their life can be beneficial in motivating patients to do well during their treatment. - Dr. Thomas Butler
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